love...

i dont 'want' to get over it

not yet.

give me anotehr 3 years of loving him...

If he doesn't want to be with you, you have to get over it, unless you will never move on, and will be depressed for a long time!

maybe he duz want to be with me tho...he says he duznt know.

just duznt like us fighting.

but we werent fightng cos of our relationship

jsut cos he was stressed about uni and i was stressed about moving back to darlo.


nehow, about that moving on thing...how wud i go abuot doing that?

im not one for going out and pulling...and i still want to be his friend so how wud i do that?

You just can't sit about in Darlo doing fook all, you got to get out, not just pulling etc, but just doing stuff you enjoy, etc. It won't be easy though, just got to tough it out hun, hopefully you's will get back together!!

i enjoy drinking, getting mashed, and cuddling martin.



i wudnt know where to start getting drugs in darlington!

i know where i can get speed but im not touching that...but theres only resin and im SO NOT smioking that!


martin wont cuddle me and drinking involves money.

Drugs are piss easy to find in Darlo, im sure you can find some if you really want


Not that i encourage drugs in any way

how tho? i dont know ne1 who wud know ne1

i only have 1 friend in darlo and he barely even drinks!

surtees used to be the one to go to, but he went down to london for 2 years, and hes come back and even he cant find ne!!

Kick Martin in the nuts, it may not help you move on but:

1) You might feel a lot better for it
2) It will make me laugh

On a more serious note, I always find talking to someone helps. Grab a friend (on the phone will do) who will listen and pour your heart out. You'll probably end up in floods of tears but its usually helps to let it all go, if you bottle it all up and don't talk to someone you could find it very difficult to move on.

If this doesn't work revert to my first suggestion!

yesterday, while no1 else was online, i had a couple of hours advice and chat with the lovely Rob...(he was locked in foundation and was incredibly bored)

htat was nice, i cried a bit and he gave me sum really good advice that i know i shud follow but not sure i can yet.

and i dont want to kick martin in the balls atm, cos i still want his children.

I split up with my finacee a year ago this week (remember cos of fathers day) and i still aint totally over it yet, was with her for about 5yrs and had a little boy together, at the time it was really hard at first between us however we have since become very close mates, does take time but gets easier as it goes on

its supposed to take half the length of time u were together to get over them....so u got anotehr year and half left, me 2...cos we were togeter 3 years and 4 months...my 1st love

Took me really til I met and fell for someone else, to really let go and get on with my life Happier now tho

i know it feels poo atm but it does get better, just don't do what i did & comfort eat (cos then u get fat to add to it all) u always more than welcome to chew my ear off, pm, ring or txt me!

Chin up Heather.

Has the penny dropped?

AT LAST

its sooo painful breaking up with the one you love- its impossible not to dwell on whats happened

its shit cos as well as you get on, you can try to be friends afterwards.. but theres always gonna be some arkwardness, its never gonna be the same... keepin away and tryin to forget is deffo the best move i reckon.. however hard it is..

which makes me think relationships aren't worth it half the time.. the higher they go, the lower you fall when they finish...

tell me about it mate

you wanna avoid them to make the healing process easier, yet you still wanna be around them

its difficult knowing whats for the best sometimes