Virginity? I got the 'dreaded' text msg y'day off my little sister...She's no longer a virgin! She is 16 mind, but still she's my little sis - sometimes I think that 16 is too young to be having sex... whats your opinion and how old was you?
She actually texted you to say she lost it - lol! Maybe ill be the cat among the pigeons here, but popping your cherry these days is more about trying to live up to some rubbish standard set by youth culture about being hip, than it is about actually enjoying it. Regardless of what we all tell each other at the time, its always rubbish in the early days and you get better with age and experience... anyone who insists otherwise is full of shit. 16 is about the bare minimum i think without it being seedy, but even then i would say someone was a good 4-5 years away from being any good at it. *ducks*
Re: Re: Virginity? She wants me to meet him as well - claims she's in love! Only known him two weeks :evil: :evil:
The text spiraled from an argument about her staying over at his house etc Yeah, she did say it wasnt what she expected and i think it was just a thing of wanting to know what it was like etc - I know there will have to be a time when she does 'do it' suppose i'm just like "ARGH! - YOU MY LITTLE SIS I DONT WANT YOU TO BE LOOKING AT OTHER MENS WILLIES AND TOUCHING THEM!" I'm such a hypacrit (sp) I lost mine at that age - but it was different then
Re: Re: Re: Virginity? 16 isnt that bad but fucking someone you have know 2 weeks is IMO. Iv done it but im a sexual deviant.
Re: Re: Re: Re: Virginity? I was expecting a whole lot worse from that post there Some lad she met at college - think it might be a little longer than two weeks as we in october now but it's still wrong being four weeks! :evil:
if it was little sister id but gutted that shed lost it, but at the same time id be pleased she felt she could tell me
Aye, we've always been close and im glad that we can chat about these things even if they do make me cringe! At the end of the day i can only give so much advice, she's got to learn from her own mistakes etc although that sounds shit
no it doesn't, i bet u didn't listen to anyone either & learned from your mistakes & are better off from having learned them than just been told them! when shes older (unless shes still with him) that she wasn't really in love & she probs can't beleive she went out with him & thought she was in love with him!
i was 15 but its true sex is only good as you get older/more experienced!! I also think sex is better when its with the person you love and when your not pissed or anything loving sober sex...mmmmm
Lol its bound to make u cringe cassie, it makes me cringe thinking about my sister and she is like 22...so i dunno what its like her for me... I know shes probably only known him for four weeks, but its not that bad.. as long as she is being careful its like what u said, shes probably just curious! It just seems weird cos its ur little sister, and like..ahh..but.. its just because its her virginity which seems like a massive deal...but really, was it a big deal for everyone else? Not really