What to do if....

All you need is good mates

true and when the time comes a new love interest.

Mates are ok but tbh you have to fully rely on yourself as they cant and wont be there all the time!

Sometimes you have to reach total rock bottom to get back on top again. Its all about learning how you work

yep thats true

its all learning curves

it horts now but it will son just b a dull ache in th back of yr mind, then after that u wil b able to look bak on it wivout feeling hurt,

life goes on

hope so hun - feel liike complete shite just now n feel like nowt's going right for me

u wil meet some 1 so much better for u,
everything happens for a reson,

i'll hold you to that one !

lol ok,
if u really want u can make me into a godess and all worship me



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ok then, worth a try

I hate it when people say this ... it doesnt make you feel any better at all

And you shouldnt be thinking like that anyone because if you can get to the stage where you're 110% ecstatic about living life to the full ON YOUR OWN then and only then are you truly ready to be looking for a relationship. This is why so many people fall and get hurt!

Re: What to do if....

This happened to me before, it took me ages to get over him.

I think what she's trying to say is that she loves you as a person and still will probs have feelings for you. . . that's what my ex said he meant. It's horrible when things like this happens, but I suppose everything happens for a reason

Best thing is to to take time out of seeing people, I did this last year and now I don't even think of him

Cheer up hun

of course u can still love someone and not b in love with them.

if u hav spent so much time with one person and done so much together but ended up havin to split up for arguments or something happened then u will still love them but know u hav to end it coz its not the same, doesnt mean u stop lovin them. takes time and not seein them to stop feelin like u hav done for yrs!!

i know everyone says it but u will in time get over it. just takes some ppl longer than others to get to the point where u can see it was for the best and stop thinkin of the past or wot ifs.

and she obv knows that contacting u or tryin to b mates wont work if u hav such strong feelings for her still. u wudnt b able to get over her coz u wud still think their was a chance u wud get back together.

Tell her to do one! she is the one that doesn't want to be with you. There's no need to feel guilty either

Thats when it stops being love and becomes care.

I think yous have got different names for the same thing.

Different names for different feelings ....

well i know ive been in a situation where i split up with someone and still loved them but wasnt in love with them coz we both changed so wasnt the same as it used to b!!

Thats exactly what I was thinking!!