Would you tell your mates...

drop them a letter, and tell them straight, when you know they have been together of whatever ask them to ask thier other half where they were at the time.

They may not appreciate it right then, but im sure they will in the end.

I would want to know like, but in a very un-harsh way. Think the best way to find out is have the person be honest with you. Thats the only thing that would bother me anyway, that the person wasn't honest fron the start.

its an awkward situation to be in i think!! You cant help how you meet/fall for people.

Thats my girl

I dont believe that any of my mates would say that cos they're jealous or wanted to break me up, so I would believe them. I wouldnt if it was just some known shit stirring scally

Dont be silly

Perhaps - but shouldn't the person be mature enough to break it off with their current person, rather than running around with their new beau?

yeah, without hesitation. i would expect the same in return from any of my mates.

i try to be easy going but cheating i do not condone - if i liked them or not, i would tell them to own up, and if they didnt, i'd do it myself.