Would you cross THAT line? Would you ever go from being best mates with someone to going out with them? Only just recently i've found myself getting closer and closer to a very good male friend of mine, and i've found myself increasingly more attracted to, and i THINK he feels the same, but i go to uni in 5 weeks and don't want to mess up this really cool friendship that we have. There's a slight problem though - i've slept with one of his mates, and he's slept with one of mine (that's how we met) but now i'm just mates with his friend i slept with and he's mates with my friend he slept with (confused yet?) so there's no problem there, it's obviously going to be a little weird tho... People also keep mistaking us for a couple, i just don't want to be the one to make the first move?
Do it, you'll never know unless you make the move. If you think he's worth being with he should be worth the risk
stop being a pussy and tell him how you feel . he'l be chuffed from the sounds of it you two have just been charging each other up anyway . Ive been out with really good freinds and it is slightky wierd if you break up but you tend to get back to the friend thing soon enough and hey maybe you wint break up . like i said dont be a pussy !
i thought you were a lesbian for some reason but go for it! for maximum wuss effect do it when you're drunk then you can always say it was the alcohol if he's not thinking the same
Me and Nicky were very good friends for about 2 years before we got together and look at us now! I never would've though in a million years that we would end up together but we did and it's great
both mate part timer i like the getting him drunk idea though.... *rubs hands together as she develops an evil plot* Cheers
If you're going away to Uni in five weeks I'd just stay as friends. LDRs are a bugger to maintain, and one person often goes off with someone else (not always of course), in which case you would lose the friendship you have.
that's what i was thinking, think am going to remain a coward and leave it, he's promised he'll come visit me so we'll see how it goes....
fair point bob but i'd always be wondering what if? its always the things you don't do that you end up regretting most in the long run imo... an my relationship was long distance for 2 periods and it has still lasted (so far!) but it depends on the person... i use the time apart to catch up with mates/champs... she's been away for a week an a bit now an i've kept bradford in the premiership an now we're 2nd halfway thru the season more satisfying than any relationship stuff
Being true to your feelings is always the best policy if you fancy him tell him if he dosent feel the same then at lkeaset you know if he does your onto a winner long distance is nothing new everyone tries it . So your going to uni big deal have some fun before you go or start up a relationship and see what happens . People who dont act on things are the ones who miss out !
REALLY CEMENT YOUR FEELINGS WITH EACH OTHER BY SUCKING HIM OFF, THEN LICKING HIS ASSHOLE AND AFTER ALL THAT GET HIM TO FELCH YOU.
Why not go for it but maybe just on a buddy fuck basis.... then see how you feel after that. I'm thinking if you do nothing and leave it you might regret it, but this way you get to try before you buy though there is a risk of it getting messed up. I've pretty much just done this with a good mate... my best mate was seeing her last year, then I was seeing her best mate for a while, now we're just good mates so we had a shag and we're still good mates even though she's seeing someone now... I ain't bothered in fact I'm plsd for her. iamain's right it is always the things you don't do that you regret more than the fuck ups you do actually do
