Would you tell your mates...

Would you tell your mates...

..if they stunk??

Nah, if you knew their partner was/had been cheating on them??

To me this is crazy, I would WANT to know if it was me. Ive known numerous people who have known that their mates other half was playing away and havent told them for not wanting to upset them etc. I would feel so let down if one of my mates knew and didnt tell me so I would without doubt tell them.

Am I the only one?? Opinions?

you should tell them, its harsh not to

if i seen the person doing it with my own eyes then i defo would but if i had just heard it from a third party i don't think i would

ditto

if i had seen them, i would probably be on the phone 2 seconds after i saw them cheating

cheating is never on, be honest,

if your with someone, surely you owe them enough to turn round and say "its not you its me......i think we should(means i already am) seeing other people".

I told my best mate after I saw her twatty bloke kissing someone else, in October 2000. She has not spoken to me ever since.

So if you're gonna do it, beware

I'm with dragon on that. you can easy get blamed for breaking people up. some people don't want to know.

i would have a serious word with the person in question,if that failed i wouldnt hesitate to spill the beans.....being unfaithful just aint on..

Or being jealous or something. It's a tricky one tbh. I think it would be easier for a bloke to say it to his maye, than for a lass to a lass, because the bloke would probably just think his mate is looking out for him, but the woman could just think she's jealous, or just causing shit, bitches that they are

best way to do it, is to get the person who is cheating to tell there other half, say to them you tell them or i will.

Think that's true actually. My mate's bloke was totally controlling and had her under his spell, so she believed him over me. Recently heard that she dumped him, because he was unfaithful and controlling!! Really, pet?!!

id make like a footy pitch, and grass, cant have me mates not knowing somet as important as that.

now the real question cookee... whos been cheating

aye aslong as i had proof then id tell my mate but i wouldnt bother with 2nd hand drivel

Thats a really difficult situation as you don't want your friend to have a go at you for "trying to ruin it", but at the same time why watch them get hurt!

I'd definitely want to be told, think if you could tell the person whos doing the cheating that you know whats going on. then maybe they'd tell them themselves.

I reckon you could pick up signs though from someone acting a bit odd/weird with you.



Cheating is totally utterly wrong and any knob that does it should try and put themselves in the other persons shoes!

Definitely - treat people as you want to be treated

yeh exactly!!i am very moral when it comes to things like this!hate selfish people who think they can have it all and more!

hmmm i dunno how good a friend r they?

i wud defo tell them if they were a good mate no matter if i saw it myself or got told off someone else i wud say i saw this or ive been told this, i wud expect the same so its only fair

i would tell the person cheating to tell their other half as its not fair & they wouldn't like it...whether they do is up to them...but tbf you're doomed if you do & doomed if you don't tell them

i would tell them if they stank tbh

You should tell everytime. Cheating is wrong. I would want to know. To me it would be a double betrayal to find out that not only had my bf cheated, but my friend knew and didn't tell me.

I always do ...and people always think im lying and fall out with me!