I need some advice here.. my sister is only 14..

lets hope in 2 years time theres not a couple more kids to choose from eh

This is Mr.B.ThatsMe....so I think we can rule out fighting

shit was that tumbleweed?

not you spencer

thats the second time my pic has been posted. hurray

I was only highligting that we have to rule out you kicking off.

JEEZ I AM ONLY TRYING TO HELP YOU

You've solved my problem entirely spence, i'm grateful.

CHEERS!

Anytime you have problem I am always here

Has Jambum got his leg over recently?? he seems re-born

Re: Re: I need some advice here.. my sister is only 14..

Harper> Where you partying on the BNP Fun Bus around town today?? It looked a hoot

lol

wouldnt worry about her having sex mate its a at of life that a lot 14 year olds do nowadays...i would concentrate on trying to keep babies at bay and i agree speaking to the boyfriends in a threatening manner is the way forward

A lad posts up a question about a situation that is deeply troubling him and asks for advice on what to do.. and this is the outcome.

Why the fuck would you want to see a pic, why would u want her to join and post on this board?

Personally I can't offer any advice as I haven't been in a simliar situation.. however the way this thread has been abused is makin my blood boil. If u've got no advice to give then don't post..

Sorry this just had to be said.

Yeah i'm gonna go with the 'threaten the boyfriend' option.. but also have a word with my sister about using protection etc and not just going on the pill cos that isnt gonna stop charva STD's

I'm glad someone see's it the way i do Chandler

i can't offer any advice but ur in a lose lose situation to be fair, whatever you do will be perceived to be wrong by someone.

and as for the grief... this is an internet messageboard, it's to be expected.

leave her to it imo.

at the end of the day you were probs doing the same at her age (or not much older) anyway and its her decision, if shes sexually mature enough to be doingh that stuff then nothing anyone can do will change that. just make sure shes doing it sensibly, and doesnt end up pregnant.

I've never let myself become part of the crowd that has to do thing to be cool.. I've always done what i've want to, when i wanted to.. plus its the fact that she's female that changes things a lot. Lads, especially with her boyfriend being a lot older, are gonna push her into doing things and if it all goes tits up she's the one left with the problem of having a child. i dont think she's mentally ready for this kinda stuff yet and i could tell by her outlook of it.. she sees it as fun and a way of gaining 'credit' that makes u more popular the more u do it with less regard to safety. She's really small too if you were to look at her you'd guess she was 12 to 13.

Still got some thinking to do like..