Unfaithfullness

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  1. BRID

    BRID Has name in red. Staff

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    I think (some) women find this hard to understand .... but men NEED to go off the rails every now and again (when they need it) to keep them sane. Its in our genes.

    The more you surpress an urge, the more likely someone is going to screw you around when they try to scratch that itch.
  2. B.O.B.

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    So do women.

    Time apart is a good thing, and should be cherished. I couldn't handle being in a relationship where I wasn't allowed to do my own thing every once in a while.
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    Oi stop nicking our urges!!! Its all we have to fall back on! :D
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    although that hasn't got a lot to do with your situation i don't agree with that either.

    lack of trust between parents isn't good for a child to be brought up in. it makes them either untrusting or thinking it's acceptable to shag around.

    well me dad did it so why shouldn't i...
  5. J

    J Mummy To A Baby Boy

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    Could you not just be paranoid?
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    PM scotty1120 !!!
  7. BRID

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    Did he smell of old spice, or chanel number 5 when he came back .....
  8. bella

    bella It's the mega bitch!!!!

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    You're the daftest Pet. I could never trust anyone who had done that to me.
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    me and stu had a 'break' last year

    im glad we did otherwise everything would of fallen to pieces if we hadnt of done :down:
  10. J

    J Mummy To A Baby Boy

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    Sometimes breaks work ive had 3 breaks in 5 years from my fella and it hasnt worked for us :(
  11. bella

    bella It's the mega bitch!!!!

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    I don't think I could handle a break like. I'd probably go mental. But then again me and my fella have never had reason for one:love:
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    Mrs harddjsdaughter84,
    you certainly did the right thing asking for advice on this message board. Basically you should bin the cheating tosser, quit your job to "look after your baby" then in a totaly coincidental decision, sponge benifits off all the good tax paying folk in this country.

    Then what you will do is tell us that "its not like that at all" whilst going to shops such as "rebelrebel" to buy earings that dolphin's could perform acrobatic jumps through. Your kid will reach the age of about 12 and will have already have been smoking for 3 years, she'll get pregnant and so the scally cycle is complete.

    :)
  13. BRID

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  14. harddjsdaughter84

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    no offence to anyone who has bin in that situation but not me and not my family!!!

    people have such a sterio typical view on whats goin on my life and that my lad is a cheating waste of space,he's dun it once and yes im a bit paranoid but can u blame me...if u read what i said i never asked for advice on what to do regarding my relationship i just asked if peeps had been cheated on and how they found out... so really all i wanted was tips on catchin out a cheat.
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    bella It's the mega bitch!!!!

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    J Mummy To A Baby Boy

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    Theyll slip up in the end

    Is he pocessive over his phone?

    Edgy when it rings?

    Has he gone from chav to try hard?
  17. harddjsdaughter84

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    NO

    NO

    AND NO
  18. J

    J Mummy To A Baby Boy

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    well youve answered your own q then
  19. harddjsdaughter84

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    I can't believe how judge mental everyone is being... is everyone telling me that they've always been 100% faithfull in a relationship?? and you've never ever given in to temptation because someone else has shown u affection... if the answer is no then i find that very hard to believe we as humans are not perfect and if u love someone that much and feel you have a strong connectiopn then in my eyes then those who would just sack someone coz they slipped up once are the mugs coz u will never ever know what you could've had!!
  20. Curly Watts

    Curly Watts Est. 1988

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    Yeah, your a mug if you ditch someone who is cheating on you, and who has done it before? Did you fucking pass you year 9 sats? :rolleyes:

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